hey ppl, chill out okay. To sk, dun misunderstood.. im sure amy mean no harm. she's just voicing out her honest thoughts. that's wad good friends are for right? to tell their friends their faults so they will be able to improve on it. many times human tend to overlook their fault, refusing to hear bad things but only the good. I admit even i myself are one of those ppl. I mean who would like to hear bad things about themselves and for me, i'm afraid to hear the negavtive comments about myself in the past but now im trying to and willingly to learn more bad sides about me so i can improve on :) (but i sort of know my negatives and still i dun mind if u guys blog and tell me about my negatives)
And for sk im not trying to say ur wrong or wad. I noe u mean no harm in your previous entry. and yes perhaps we've misunderstood u but maybe in your previous post, u should instead thank amy for her comments and explain in a better tone that u've actually tried and its only that we did not see your efforts. i'm sure in this way it would not result in any unnecessary conflicts or wad. To me i'll say that amy is brave to say those words. She values all our friendship more than anything else (esp you) and believe that our friendships are strong. That's y she's not afraid to voice it out. So sk, dun get it wrong okay - she's trying to help u and so are we :) We are want you to be a positive-thinking boy!
SK its okay to complain and vent it out sometimes but too often is unhealthy. Hmm.. ur presence is very impt in our clique and u never fail to bring smiles to our clique. Im saying from the bottom of my heart. So stay cheerful and humourous as always, our "kai xin guo" =D tomorrow will be a better day! Stay positive from this moment on!
ps: as for shan question, i really have no definite ans. its either to keep and raise the child singlehandedly or to keep and give the child to other couples who wanted children but were unable to.
To peifen: i din noe u have such a story behind and im really proud of u! i'm glad that u shared your story with us and its really motivating :)
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