Sunday, May 4, 2008
JAN'S POST:
I don't find it anywhere near wrong having to voice out one's complaints at one's own blog.
Many a times people have their own ups and downs in life.
Having no one comfortable to turn to, it does helps a lot to vent those pent-up frustrations in a blog.
Yet, a good friend has to not understand these distressed feelings, and ranted out her comments. It might be out of goodwill but that's only to her own stand. That is, these are done without been thoughtful for your little depressed friend here.
On the other hand, those words might stand true to an extend. However, they just ain't said in a rightful tone to be taken in as good advice, and definitely not at the right moment though.
So my dear mummy, i guess you might probably not be in a great mood at the time you read SK's post. Not saying that you're in fault, but maybe you have your own troubles that are yet to be voiced out as well.
SK, things might get tough on your side. Nevertheless, i believe you are definitely mature enough to handle them. We can only be your pillar of support when you need comfort, or some space to relax and have fun.
Cheers, things will get better, I'm sure. :))
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Digressing...
Shan's Qns
Having a child bears the love emblem between a couple.
Should a break-up happens, I wouldn't wish to keep the child.
With the thought of harming an innocent life kept in mind, the decision remains strong still.
If I have to bear the child for the sake of keeping my guy by my side, I will only feel sorry for myself. For sure, i believe i deserve someone better to love and dote me. Thus, why should i go for someone who no longer loves me, but stays by my side for the child's sake. It's a kind of "pity" love that i'll never wish to have. I'll rather bear the pain of heartaches and give myself the right treatment.
Keeping the child doesn't necessary meant the goodwill of the child. Often, people feel that one shouldn't harm innocent lives through abortion. However, have anyone think or feel for those children? How will they feel having to grow up in a single-parent family? The cruel teases and bad childhood that they'll have to endure through. Do you think those kids who are their peers will think rationally enough to be sensitive towards your kid's feelings? I doubt that. Imagine growing up in an environment whereby you're ostracised by your peers.
Hence, i strongly don't believe in keeping the child if it's still early to decide.
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PF's Strong Self
Firstly, a pat on your back.
I can almost understand those agony you've been through.
I'm glad you walk out of that bad past of yours, and still able to look back upon those down moments and talked about it. It just shows you're able to face up to your problems.
You've been strong, my dear. :))
I don't find it anywhere near wrong having to voice out one's complaints at one's own blog.
Many a times people have their own ups and downs in life.
Having no one comfortable to turn to, it does helps a lot to vent those pent-up frustrations in a blog.
Yet, a good friend has to not understand these distressed feelings, and ranted out her comments. It might be out of goodwill but that's only to her own stand. That is, these are done without been thoughtful for your little depressed friend here.
On the other hand, those words might stand true to an extend. However, they just ain't said in a rightful tone to be taken in as good advice, and definitely not at the right moment though.
So my dear mummy, i guess you might probably not be in a great mood at the time you read SK's post. Not saying that you're in fault, but maybe you have your own troubles that are yet to be voiced out as well.
SK, things might get tough on your side. Nevertheless, i believe you are definitely mature enough to handle them. We can only be your pillar of support when you need comfort, or some space to relax and have fun.
Cheers, things will get better, I'm sure. :))
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Digressing...
Shan's Qns
Having a child bears the love emblem between a couple.
Should a break-up happens, I wouldn't wish to keep the child.
With the thought of harming an innocent life kept in mind, the decision remains strong still.
If I have to bear the child for the sake of keeping my guy by my side, I will only feel sorry for myself. For sure, i believe i deserve someone better to love and dote me. Thus, why should i go for someone who no longer loves me, but stays by my side for the child's sake. It's a kind of "pity" love that i'll never wish to have. I'll rather bear the pain of heartaches and give myself the right treatment.
Keeping the child doesn't necessary meant the goodwill of the child. Often, people feel that one shouldn't harm innocent lives through abortion. However, have anyone think or feel for those children? How will they feel having to grow up in a single-parent family? The cruel teases and bad childhood that they'll have to endure through. Do you think those kids who are their peers will think rationally enough to be sensitive towards your kid's feelings? I doubt that. Imagine growing up in an environment whereby you're ostracised by your peers.
Hence, i strongly don't believe in keeping the child if it's still early to decide.
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PF's Strong Self
Firstly, a pat on your back.
I can almost understand those agony you've been through.
I'm glad you walk out of that bad past of yours, and still able to look back upon those down moments and talked about it. It just shows you're able to face up to your problems.
You've been strong, my dear. :))
"There's always a rainbow hanging across the sky after every rainfall. Look for yours and walk ahead. You'll find a pot of happiness at the very end."
i hugged you at 5/04/2008 09:46:00 PM;Y